Being a military wife I've seen alot of diffrent things when you marry your marine you think wow this is gunna be a great life and were going to be together forever but things change your once gentle husband/wife becomes distant angry aggressive and abusive mentally and physically,or starts stepping outside of the marriage sometimes due to ptsd (Post tramatic stress disorder)especially when deployments happen.But counseling doesn't always help because most of the time there is a deeper rooted problem,Then once your husband/wife gets deployed some spouses realize that would rather be alone or the realize they are unhappy in their marriage and feel there only way out is when the spouse deploys because it makes it easier.But many can't deal with deployments and training and their spouse being away from the home all the time especially when children are involved.Because its more stressful it takes a strong woman/man to deal with this lifestyle.
Because its not for the weak hearted im not speaking for everyone but experiances ive had with friends and ppl around me i know ppl with wonderful marriages including mines but theres also ppl i know that are divorcing because theres no love in the relationship from one end and not the other,or because they cant handle the lifestyle .So next time you or someone you know wants to get married think to yourself can i see my self spending the rest of my life with this person.
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